A five-minute search will reveal that Valentine’s Day has questionable origins, including a pagan Roman fertility festival and the martyrdom of Saint Valentine (of which there are at least two). But honestly, who cares? It has become a feel-good, syrupy emotional celebration of love. In the midst of snow and frigid temps, we are given a reason to decorate our homes with red, ice cupcakes, and send cards.
Although the sentiments are often superficial—less about commitment and devotion and more about lace and hearts—it’s a fun day! But I throw out a challenge: if we’re going to celebrate love, let’s do it right and go to the source. 1 Corinthians 13 is known as the Bible’s “love chapter” and explains what is and is not love.
We learn that love is not revealed in chocolates and roses, or dinners and candlelight. Love is exhibited in patience and kindness, humility and gentleness, forgiveness and mercy. Selah.
Our most eloquent professions, generous gifts, and greatest sacrifices are actually nothing without love. The qualities of true love run deep:
“Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful,
and endures through every circumstance” (verse 7).
Love isn’t found in a cut-out paper heart, but in cutting out the selfishness in our own hearts.
The final verse of the chapter reminds us what has enduring value:
“Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—
and the greatest of these is love” (verse 13).
February is a great month to share love!
BARBARA HIGBY 