Powerful Words from Generous Hearts

I was recently doubting myself in two areas. In each instance someone spoke words that flipped my perspective and sparked joy.

First, I was feeling down about my hair—I’m losing it! Not a big deal, but a distraction. I faithfully thanked God it wasn’t due to disease or chemo treatments, just another aging nuisance. Still, I told Him I’d really like it to stop.

We attend a super-friendly church and each Sunday are enthusiastically greeted like our being there is the best thing ever. Two weeks ago the greeter, a stranger to me, exclaimed, “I love your hair! It looks so healthy!” Now, people may have commented on my hair style or color, but no one ever has remarked on its health. I’m guessing you’ve never been told that either. What an unusual comment—and exactly what I needed to hear! I thanked her for being so outgoing and unwittingly building me up. Now I brush the hair off my shoulders and say to myself, “What healthy hair!” You know, I think less is falling!

The second self-doubt came this morning. I felt dry and was praying about what to post this week. I questioned if I should take a blog break. In the middle of my musing a new friend texted me, “I felt compelled to start reading your blog! I’ve read a few and I’m now a subscriber!” Wow! Then a second friend in the chat responded that she knew nothing about following a blog, “I was just reading it. So good!” They knew nothing about my struggle but spoke words of life and… here I am!

I hope you’re encouraged to speak up, to let compliments and positive words flow. We’ve had this safety measure drilled in us: “If you see something, say something.” Let’s steal the mantra to remind us to say kind words to others.  

Ephesians tells us to speak…“what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (4:29). In the communications I described words were spoken to build me up. The speakers didn’t know of my need, but God did, and He used them to bless.

Friends, let’s be generous with words that compliment, edify, and encourage. According to Proverbs 25:11 (ESV),

“A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.”

Share a golden apple today!

Thoughts about Justice

Inspired by a parable I read, I began to think about justice and how we all want it. Justice for the trafficked, justice for victims of terrorists, justice for anyone unfairly deprived of their rights or taken advantage of. A cursory word search in the Bible will show that justice is dear to God’s heart. Jesus demonstrated this in a parable recorded in Luke 18:1-8.

A judge was beleaguered by a persistent (nagging) widow who repeatedly came to him requesting justice. He didn’t care about the woman’s plight but begrudgingly responded to her pleas only because he wanted her to leave him alone. Jesus points to the poor example of the human judge’s behavior and asks a question,

“Will not God bring about justice for His chosen ones, who cry out to him day and night?
Will He keep putting them off?”

If we feel our cries for justice are not heard, I recommend the practice of the widow—keep asking. Jesus concludes with a promise:

“I tell you, He [God] will see that they get justice, and quickly.”

The “quickly” confused me until I realized that although the wait to see justice may seem long, when it does come it will quickly set all wrongs right.

Justice is promised.

Finding Hope, 65 Meditations for a Broken Heart

No Fear Here

Rulers menace, people protest, wars threaten—and God is still on His throne. All is under His control and subservient to His rule. His power is unlimited, His timing deliberate, and His purposes indisputable. God sees all and rules with the same power and sovereignty He displayed in Creation and at the Cross. In His throne room there is no panic, no Plan B, no hand-wringing, only peace and purpose.

Let us declare, here and now, in our hearts and in our homes, “No fear here.”

The Samaritan and the Bike

The Good Samaritan, part 2

We lived on a hill in Midland Park. Most residents do. You only need to walk five minutes out the door to find yourself going uphill or down. This is an important element to my story.

Our son David did not have the mental acuity or physical dexterity to ride a bike so we bought him an adult tricycle. The slope of our driveway challenged him—he coasted down but he couldn’t pedal back up. Though his ability was limited, he enjoyed his trike and stayed within the parameters of the driveway—until the day he didn’t.

Did I mention we lived on a hill? He turned out of the driveway but only went six feet when his bike began to roll back. David put his feet down to stop the momentum but his skinny little leg got trapped between the pedal and the bike. I couldn’t roll him forward and I didn’t have the strength to pull the pedal away from the frame. Since the neighborhood men were at work, I called the police, hoping they would be able to pull out pedal and release David’s leg.

Flashing red lights announced their arrival and, though they gave it their best effort, they couldn’t budge the pedal. So they called the fire department. Two engines arrived with sirens blaring and more flashing lights. One pulled up behind the police car, the other blocked the end of the road. Neighbors came running from surrounding streets to see what tragedy befell us.  And then the ambulance came!

The arrival of each emergency vehicle increased David’s tears—and his sister’s laughter. I sent her inside so onlookers didn’t think poorly of us. Then David got a nose bleed. As I held a wad of tissues to his face, an officer informed me they were sending for the jaws of life.

The powerful tool cut through the pedal’s thick metal shaft and David was set free. One by one the emergency vehicles left—except the ambulance. With one inch indentations on each side of his leg, the first responders strongly recommended David go the ER. The ambulance delivered us to the hospital where we thankfully learned there was no injury.

Now I come to the point of my story.

The next morning a neighbor came to our door and explained she would not allow her daughter Sarah outside during our fiasco because neighbors shouldn’t stare—they should care. Could they please bring David’s tricycle to a bike shop to be repaired? They hauled the heavy trike into the back of their SUV and returned it a few days later, having borne the burden and paid the expense.

This incident came to mind with clarity last week as I reflected on the parable of the Good Samaritan. Like the man in the story, our neighbor had a responsive heart. She inconvenienced herself to care for us and our provide for our need.

Do you remember Jesus’ words at the end of the parable? “Go and do likewise” (Luke 10:37).

David giving Stacey a ride in his basket.

Finding Hope, 65 Meditations for a Broken Heart